Henry Cruz Lopez

The Day was Monday July 11th
The time was 6:34 pm
The pain was excruciating
And it was absolutely worth it!!
Henry Cruz weighed 8 lbs 9 oz and was 22 inches long.

On that Monday morning, Paul's alarm went off at 5:30am and I informed him my contractions were 7 mins apart for a couple hours now. I didn't feel the need to rush to the hospital, but I knew I didn't want Paul to go to work and leave me alone for the day... so we made our way to the University of Utah Hospital and I was hopeful that I was dilated enough to get the party started!
Sure enough, I was admitted and they broke my water. The anesthesiologist was extremely busy and apparently there is only one???? so I had to wait FOREVER for my epidural and then it didn't take so after more waiting I got more meds. The Dr informed me that the baby's head was turned and we'd have to go C Section.
So we headed to surgery and I was getting feelings back in my legs and turns out my epidural actually came out. Whhaaaatttt? So I had to hunch over and go through contractions for 40 mins while they tried to figure that mess out and give me another. I was pretty upset and I wanted to tell that anesthesiologist where to go! Then the meds kicked in times 10,000 and I thought I was falling off the bed at one point and panicked for the nurse to help me but was informed I wasn't falling and just said, "Oh."
It all happened so fast. Paul was with me, holding my hand and then we heard the high pitched eagle screeches from our baby boy!!!!
Paul brought him over to me and I saw his swollen features and full cone head of hair.
Then Paul scurried off to the nursery to update the fam and get Henry settled. The nurse must have been an ex nascar driver as she raced my bed through the halls!! I had to puke... but there was nothing to do it in, so she cleverly ripped off the pillow case and I did my dirty deed. I was sooo numb, it took a few pitiful heaves to accomplish the task.
The fam was very supportive! My mom was able to hop on a flight from Phoenix and made it to the hospital in time. Paul's parents, my sis Katelyn and Paul's sis and kids came to support as well. I was super numb and out of it for my first time holding my baby. It was surreal. Paul and I are parents... EEEEEKKKK!!! Haha!And that's the story of Henry's Birthday... more to come!

BABY SHOWER

Last week was my baby shower hosted by Katelyn and Rissa. It was a huge success with lots of support from family and friends. We received many wonderful gifts from homemade blankets to several books to start Henry's library and of course lots of seriously adorable outfits.




We had a spread of yummy sandwiches and a watermelon that Katelyn carved into a baby carriage.


Rissa and Jan put together the decorations with home made pom poms, a sock tree, banners and more.

A friend of Katelyn's made the cake and it turned out super cute. Plus she made the most delicious cake balls ever!

Thanks everyone for your time and support! Rissa flew in for the occasion and it was great to catch up! It was also nice to have my parents in town for the occasion. The next time I see them will be for the arrival of Henry. 5 weeks and counting!!

Birthday Weekend!

On Thursday I turned the big 28! Paul and I went to a movie and then dinner after work and then finished getting our tent trailer ready for our first camping trip of the season. Friday after work we headed up to Rockport with some of Paul's fam. We were greeted with some rainy weather but set up camp and hoped for the best. Our heater wouldn't work so Knuckles and I had to cuddle to stay warm!On Saturday there were a few hours of sun! We played "redneck horseshoes," roasted some dawgs and enjoyed the weather while we could! The guys went fishing for a few hours and actually came back with some fish! Art also cooked in his awesome apron that we got him for Christmas! (it says, "I turn grills on!")
Then the rain came back and we chopped up veggies and such in the camper and Katelyn tried to keep Knuckles warm. We were going to have a big birthday BBQ-Katelyn and Paul even got me a monkey pinata!! But the storm rolled in and we all hurried and ate and headed back in our trailers to bundle up! I still enjoyed the left over pinata candy... we munched on treats and played games until we fell asleep to the sounds of the rain.
In the middle of the night, Katelyn wandered out to the bathroom and upon her return, she got caught in a snow storm!! The flakes were huge and soggy! Needles to say, we left the next morning (a day early) because it just wasn't fun anymore. Our tootsies were wet, our fingers were cold and we just decided to pack up and try again in better weather.

THE ICING ON THE CAKE!!!!!!!!

We hurried and packed up in the rain, struggling not to get our feet too wet in the deep puddles. Paul's Uncle made a big breakfast for us all to enjoy before we headed out. I decided to put Knuckles in the truck so he wouldn't get soaked as we ate. I wasn't feeling too well and wandered back to the truck a few minutes early to find Knuckles covered in a white foam and this white substance all over the inside of the truck door. I thought maybe he was sick or foaming at the mouth... then it dawned on me. I shut the truck door and took a deep breath. Paul had placed my untouched--not even one bite taken--BIRTHDAY CAKE on the back seat. Knuckles and been bouncing around looking out the windows waiting for us and he stomped my birthday cake...to death!! Katelyn brought it up on Saturday and we didn't even cut into it because of the weather. There was frosting chunks scattered on all of the seats and strawberries gushing between Knuckle's toes and smeared into everything. Oh well, we just tossed it into the dumpster and agreed it was total tragedy. I still had a wonderful Birthday and appreciate all of the thought that went into it!! :P

Fully Committed!

32 Weeks 5 Days Prego! That Leaves 51 days until the baby is here. Paul and I are fully committed to the name Henry- it just feels right! Plus we crafted his name with wooden blocks, so there's no turning back now!!

Henry's room is pretty much ready. My mom and BFF, Kreesh, will be in town next week and get to check it out. I am super excited to see my peeps!
I feel like there is probably more to do and prepare, but what? Paul and I signed up for a birthing class at the end of June. I don't think about the actual birthing of Henry too much because it freaks me out. I can't wait to meet him and hold him; but the pushing and the ickyness makes me nervous! I have mentally blocked that portion for now and it's keeping my anxieties down till the time comes.

I sit here and ponder what will he look like? Will he have light or dark hair? Will it be coarse like his dad's and we'll have to buy industrial hair gel? Or will it be wavy like mine so we'll keep it short? I think about his first Halloween costume, first Christmas... I don't want to go too overboard with gifts as he'll probably be equally entertained with the bow vs the toy. I wonder if Knuckles will lick his face or want to nibble on him? I wonder how Paul and I will handle little sleep and sharing responsibilities. Oh and one of the big, burning questions: will we ever decide on a middle name?! So many thoughts and 51 more days until some of them can start being answered!!!

26 Weeks

Paul and I went to a wedding a couple weeks ago and I had to document the occasion of wearing full on make up and I even spent a few extra minutes with the hair straightener! I still wear light makeup and comb my hair for work, but it's my five minute routine so I can sleep in as long as possible! Then after work it's into the sweats and baggy shirts I go!
At 26 weeks along or shall I say 14 weeks to go (eek, exciting and scary) I am feeling pretty good and have a decent amount of energy. I wish I was "showing" more as my tops are getting shorter and tighter, but not in a distinctive baby bump way. I think I might start wearing those T shirts that say "baby on board" or something about a "bun in this oven" because I think the overall population is waaaay more friendly toward prego peeps than to overweight gals that are getting out of breath by just breathing!!!! It's not a cute compliment to hear, "Wow, you're 5 months along? I can't even tell you're pregnant." Umm thanks? My parents got me a maternity shirt for Christmas and I try it on every week, but alas, it is still looking like just a whole bunch of extra material in the front... Oh well!! (I'm trying to force a bump pic below!)
Paul and I have been getting Henry's room ready. We set up the crib on Saturday and it was actually a very smooth process. Simba and Teddy approve! We also got some storage bins from ikea and I'm not sure if there will be room for some sort of rocking chair eventually.
We also registered last week and had fun looking around and scanning EVERYTHING!. There is SO MUCH stuff for a baby! We are going with a jungle and monkey theme.


We can't wait to meet Henry ______ Lopez. Middle name suggestions are welcome! We have been reading lots of books to prepare, saving money to cover my maternity leave, sometimes I sit in his room and think about him and Paul has even read him a story or 2... I am definitely at the sentimental/hormonal stage!!!!!! We are so excited to be parents and Knuckles will be a great protective big brother. He always wants to sit near my stomach and lay on me-I think he senses some changes are coming.
We definitely have baby on the brain... can't wait until he's in my arms!!

A little boy and flowers!

At our 16 week ultrasound we found out that we are expecting a little boy!!!!! We are so excited to no longer call the baby "IT"! We are so excited for him and to buy him things!!
As soon as the nurse told us, Paul asked if I was sure about the name Henry? So we will see what name this little guy ends up with! I thought I was sure, but we have time :)
The very next day Kreesh sent this beautiful bouquet to congratulate us. Thank you Krids, this was so thoughtful and you were very fast acting!
The next week was Valentines Day and Paul surprised me with a bouquet at work. So the house was fragrant and very enjoyable! Thanks for my flowers you guys!

The Nursery

We had a busy weekend painting the nursery. It was so nice to have my parents in town to help! Picking the colors wasn't too bad, I knew we wanted 2 shades of green and Paul knew he wanted what I wanted!! We went with a darker color on the bottom and a chair rail to separate the colors...the chair rail was slightly trickier than anticipated. But Paul, Katelyn and Roy Boy put their heads together and got it done while Merv and I supervised!! We had some fun dinners out and a great time just hanging out. I sure miss having my parents close by. Thanks for all of your help and for the washer and dryer!!
Things are going well, still getting nauseous and I didn't realize my emotions were getting the best of me.... until I cried during The Lion King and then during American Idol. In my defense, the Mufasa scene is super sad and I think I've always been emotional over it!
I have an ultrasound on Tuesday and we're very excited to see the progress of our little one!